[Disclosure: This post is sponsored by K-Y. In exchange for this post, I have received perks in the form of compensation and products. All opinions on this blog are my own.]
I think it’s time we all had a little chat about something that seems taboo but really shouldn’t be – our sex lives. Let’s face it, ladies, with life changes and busy schedules, they’re not always something that we think about and get to enjoy. Between things like crazy work schedules, daily stresses, big changes like raising kids and getting married, or just getting too comfortable, it’s easy to push your sexual wants & needs to the side. Well, I think it’s about time we take charge and get exactly what we want, don’t you? To help you out, I’m sharing 5 ways to take control and spice up your sex life so you get exactly what you want and enjoy it again.
1. Be vocal: You know what you want and when you want it, so why not just say so? Being more vocal and open with your partner can help you to discover things that you both enjoy and can improve your sexual relationship.
2. Try something new: Adding something that can enhance your pleasure is a surefire way to spice up your sex life right away. K-Y Warming Jelly Personal Lubricant (which comes from the #1 doctor recommended vaginal lubricant brand) adds a slight warming sensation for a little more enjoyment when you’re getting busy, and as a bonus, it helps to amp up sexy massages.
3. Give your fantasies a try: Have something you’ve always wanted to try but are too worried that your partner will think it’s a little weird? You would be surprised at how willing they will be to try it out. Don’t be embarrassed to share your fantasies – chances are they’ll excite your partner as well!
4. Let anticipation help you out: There’s nothing like a little building up the anticipation to make the main event even better. When you’re in the mood, try sending a sexy message or two to get the point across and don’t skip the foreplay – your partner will definitely be wanting you even more.
5. Get away from your routine: If you always find yourself doing the same thing when it comes to sex, try little changes to switch things up. It can be as simple as trying a new position or getting busy somewhere else, like the shower (K-Y Jelly Personal Lubricant is perfect for this situation). Little changes will help to keep your sex life exciting and fun.
Are you ready to take control and spice up your sex life? Trying one or more of these tips out might just be the push you need to get what you want and make sex even more enjoyable. It should be fun and enjoyable for both you and your partner, so don’t be afraid to take charge!
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